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UK retreats, weekends and gatherings.

Watching only takes you so far. These are the UK organisations running men's work in the room — initiatory weekends, ongoing circles, nature-based retreats. Dates move, so each one links straight to the organiser's own calendar.

8 listings

WeekendManKind Project UK & Ireland

New Warrior Training Adventure

The best-known initiatory men's weekend in the UK. Small groups, no phones, deep work on accountability, shadow and purpose, with optional follow-on I-Groups afterwards.

Several weekends a year — see site for next confirmed dates
Various venues, England & Scotland

Cost: Sliding scale, bursaries available

Dates and booking
GroupManKind Project UK & Ireland

I-Groups (ongoing men's circles)

Peer-led circles that meet regularly for check-ins and structured emotional work. The most practical entry point if a full weekend feels like too much too soon.

Weekly or fortnightly, year-round
Towns and cities across the UK, plus online

Cost: Usually free or low-cost

Dates and booking
WeekendA Band of Brothers

Mentoring for young men

Rites-of-passage weekends and long-term mentoring for young men aged 18–25, many of them in or leaving the criminal justice system. Also recruits and trains volunteer mentors.

Rolling intakes through the year
Regional hubs across England
Dates and booking
RetreatSacred Sons

Embodied Masculine intensives

Breathwork, movement, conflict work and men's council over several days. More embodiment-led and physical than the classic circle format.

Occasional UK dates — check the events calendar
UK & Europe dates announced per season
Dates and booking
RetreatManTalks (Connor Beaton)

Men's intensives & online programmes

Structured work on anger, shame and relational patterns from the creator whose talks already sit in the WISR library. Good if you want a curriculum rather than a one-off weekend.

Cohorts open a few times a year
Mostly online, occasional in-person intensives
Dates and booking
GroupAndy's Man Club

Local men's groups & workshops

Free, no-referral peer talking groups for men over 18. Not depth work, but the single easiest room in the country to walk into on a bad week.

Every Monday, 7pm (except bank holidays)
150+ venues across the UK

Cost: Free

Dates and booking
RetreatBuddhafield / Triratna

Men's retreats

Meditation-led men's retreats under canvas. Quieter and more contemplative than initiatory weekends — closer to the Stoic end of the curriculum than the shadow-work end.

Spring to autumn, camping season
Devon and Suffolk, England
Dates and booking
GatheringWildwise / Schumacher-adjacent facilitators

Men's nature-based gatherings

Wilderness rites of passage, solo time and council in the Bill Plotkin lineage. Best suited to men mid-transition who want space rather than instruction.

Seasonal, typically spring and autumn
Dartmoor and the South West
Dates and booking

WISR isn't affiliated with any of these organisations and takes no commission. Listings are reviewed by hand every so often — always confirm dates, cost and suitability with the organiser before booking. Know something that belongs here? It can be added.