The Real Reason Men Hate Women (It Isn't Women)

Dr. Robert Glover

Dr. Robert Glover examines the underlying psychological dynamics behind male resentment toward women and connects it to the 'Nice Guy' syndrome. The video provides guidance and resources to help men overcome passive behaviors and build healthier, more authentic romantic connections.

Ready to break free from the "Nice Guy" patterns holding you back? Work with Dr. Robert Glover, the world's leading authority on the Nice Guy Syndrome. Get started with his books, courses, and coaching at https://drglover.com/ ➖ What You'll Find at drglover.com ➖ Dr. Glover's website is the ultimate resource for men ready to become powerful, confident, and successful in every area of their lives. You will find: Online Courses: Deep-dive video courses to help you master dating, relationships, and your own masculinity. Workshops & Seminars: Live events to accelerate your growth with Dr. Glover and a tribe of like-minded men. Coaching: Work directly with Dr. Glover and his certified coaches to get personalized guidance. Books & Audio: Access Dr. Glover's groundbreaking books, including the international bestseller No More Mr. Nice Guy. Ready to become an Integrated Man? Get the tools you need at https://drglover.com/ ➖ Who Is Dr. Robert Glover? ➖ I have been working with men for over 30 years. It is my passion and my life's purpose to help men get what they want in love, sex, and life. As a Doctor of Marriage and Family Therapy and author of No More Mr. Nice Guy, I have watched countless men transform from passive, people-pleasing "Nice Guys" into the powerful, Integrated Men they were born to be. All of my work is dedicated to giving men the tools, resources, and support they need to go from insecure and ineffective to confident, passionate, and masterful. I hope you will join me on this journey. Learn more at: https://drglover.com/ ➖ About The Video ➖ A man wrote a book called Hating Women. His editor, a woman, is the one who insisted on the title. Sean Hotchkiss spent years as a journalist at GQ, Esquire and Men's Health before he left to become a men's coach. Hating Women is his first book, and it is a memoir. That is why I wanted him on this call. Even if nobody else on the call has had negative issues around women, I have. Most men have, and most men will not say it out loud. We get into the summer he spent seeing red after a breakup, the months he lived in an ashram where every woman he passed in the hallway had his mother's face, and the morning he stopped lying to himself about it. I tell him about my own rage work up in Whistler, a couple of weeks after my second wife's affair, while I was finishing No More Mr. Nice Guy. Then we get to the part that surprised me. I am 54% of the way through his book, and I would tell you it is not a book about how to stop hating women. It is a book about finding a men's group and a mentor and starting to be vulnerable with other men. A man's rage at women has almost nothing to do with women. It is far more closely related to his wounded relationship with his father. I have been a marriage therapist for over 45 years. I used to tell every couple who walked into my office that the best thing they could do for their relationship was have good same-sex friends. The women usually do. The men usually don't. And when a man does meet a woman, the men are the first thing he drops. This is part one of a two-part conversation. Chapters: 0:00 "I can't lie to myself anymore" 1:18 Who Sean Hotchkiss is 4:06 Why No More Mr. Nice Guy never got the blowback 6:05 "Men won't buy a self-help book" 6:50 The woman editor who demanded the title 8:32 Hatred and love are the same fire 9:32 What the book is actually about 11:01 The summer he saw red 12:23 Rage work at Whistler 13:02 Where the rage actually comes from 14:30 The reconnection with men 16:18 The initiation we don't get #DrRobertGlover #NoMoreMrNiceGuy #MensWork --- Don't forget to like and subscribe! - Dr. Robert Glover